Hello world!!
My little corner of the universe is looking brighter everyday. Iv gotten in touch with an old friend from high school- whose name will be changed to BFF, she is so lovely- and to be honest it was the best possible thing I could do. I was a bit lonely since I moved away from the city to the coast. So I messaged her on fb and told her how much I missed her and wanted to catch up and as a result she said she felt the same and she invited me to a party last saturday night. The party was a soup party and it was so fun!! XD ❤ -for those of you who don't know what a soup party is, its where everyone brings a vegetable and you make soup- It was so delicious and perfect for an autumn evening :P despite the fact the party was 1 hour and a half away (thats an hour and a half driving at 100km/hr mind you) and raining like a tyfoon -I didn't let it deter me from going. My sister talked me into going and im so glad I did :D Not only did I meet a few new people but also amazing opportunities arose from this little decision.
My little corner of the universe is looking brighter everyday. Iv gotten in touch with an old friend from high school- whose name will be changed to BFF, she is so lovely- and to be honest it was the best possible thing I could do. I was a bit lonely since I moved away from the city to the coast. So I messaged her on fb and told her how much I missed her and wanted to catch up and as a result she said she felt the same and she invited me to a party last saturday night. The party was a soup party and it was so fun!! XD ❤ -for those of you who don't know what a soup party is, its where everyone brings a vegetable and you make soup- It was so delicious and perfect for an autumn evening :P despite the fact the party was 1 hour and a half away (thats an hour and a half driving at 100km/hr mind you) and raining like a tyfoon -I didn't let it deter me from going. My sister talked me into going and im so glad I did :D Not only did I meet a few new people but also amazing opportunities arose from this little decision.
So the moral of today's blog is dont be afraid to step out and make the first move. If you are lonely, depressed or anxious or feeling isolated, reach out and get in contact with an old friend you used to be best friend's with (if you can ) because most times they feel just like you do. Or you could just as easily reach out and get in contact with a family member you haven't seen for a while- if they live far away, save up and book a surprise flight ticket to see them or of course, they are just a phone call away. Don't stay in your little warm bubble of self pitty because you think none of your old friends care about you any more or perhaps you think your family dont care about you. Whatever you do avoid isolating yorself at all costs. The best thing you can do is be around people and stay positive. :D
I remeber I was having one of the worst days ever and I had been crying in my car. As I pulled up to a corner a young man passed my car with his groceries in his hands. He looked at me and kept eye contact, then surprisingly he gave me a lovely smile. As if to say "Its ok. We all have bad days, whatever you're going through, it will get better". Oooorrrrr he could have been laughing at me.... im not sure -but despite this sarcastic idea, I prefer to think in his own small way he was comforting me. He didn't even know who i was or the situation I was in. It's so comforting that in times of trouble we as humans have the ability to pull togther even and support each other in small ways. And its the snall things that matter the most i think. Even if it's just something simple like smiling at someone who looks like they are having a bad day.
So you'll never know how much just a simple smile can mean to someone.
So if ever you see someone without a smile dont be afraid to give them one of yours. Because chances are they will appreciate it beyond belief and it will take a weight off their shoulders. Just like it did with me
Have a lovely day gorgeous people of the internet and remeber- no matter what, someone always loves you or wants to share a moment of love with you- even if it's a stranger, or God.
Dont forget that this blog is all about you guys so if your new send me an email or a message saying what you wanna see :)
Love Lycie Loo
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P.S.. The sun will always show again no matter how much rain there is today. Stay positive and dont forget to keep the faith. ~<3
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